Intellectual study has proven that 0~6 years old infants would absorb all the information into their mind without filtering. Every conversation your kids heard from you get soaked into their mind like water into their sponge which will result in shaping their blueprints of beliefs in their whole life. For instances, if you always say “no” to the toddler, he or she would imprint subconscious beliefs that:
I’m not worthy. I’m not good enough, I’m not smart enough or educate enough. It’s selfish for me to want more. I should be happy with what I have. I don’t deserve it. I can’t get what I want. Even if I try, I will fail. I’ve already tried everything and nothing has worked. Nothing ever works out for me. Even if I try, I will fail. I’m going to humiliate, shamed or look ridiculed
It's true from the "Power of Positivity" to say that don’t let a single day go by without telling the kids:
I know you can do this I believe in you I trust you You are special I’m proud of you You make me happy I like it when you do such good thing I’m grateful for you I love you When you……., I like it You are doing great You are a good child because….. You’re terrific Amazing Oh! When you………., this show you had grown up Do you know that you can’t do that in one year before and now you can make it? You know you grown up now. You do it by yourself! Good job.
Motherhood life is an endless loop of no sleep and lot of stress. Your mental strings are pulled tight as a violin. Be aware don’t be angry or disruptive to your kids merely because you can be. Words carry weight.Just like the toothpaste, you can’t take back the words once the words leave your mouth. Mind your words carefully. What parent says and what our child hears may not the same thing.
(Video source via the brightside.me)
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