What is the magical thing that will brighten your day and the days of people around you? The answer is smiling. Your smile makes other people happy and makes you happy in return. You probably heard the body language would carry 55% of weight to impress the other person. Sad faces generated sad faces, and smiling faces evoked smiles and happiness. Bring the sunshine to your lover by your smiles. You are delivering a pleasant message to him that everything would be ok.
2. First Met
Have you ever felt tired in a relationship with those changes occur around the waistline of your partner, and marital tensions get bigger? You wonder he is not the man he was on the day you tied the knot, and you no longer enjoy looking his extra pound belly. And then let’s try to imagine you travel back in time when you first met him. Remind yourself of what attracted him to you in the first place. Do you remember the day you start talking with each other? Set up the romantic moment with him, have a candlelight dinner, end with a kiss like the first time all over again.
To make volunteering a family affair (or an affair with your hubby). Every community has countless opportunities for doing charity. Anything you can do will not only help others, and it will also help you. It would be great to spend meaningful time for making a positive difference in your community and do it with your partner. You will feel good about yourselves with a sense of purpose, feel appreciated, and give yourself to a good cause. When you give the other people love and attention, you are rewarded by getting a chance to see the beauty in yourself and your partner.
Let’s face it, women tend to have much stronger emotions, imaginations, and feelings than men. We are eager to share our stories, express what we are thinking and feeling by talking through it. Men, generally speaking, tend to be naturally wired to problem-solving when their partners want something simpler. Most of the time, a man responds to his wife’s emotions with a problem-solving approach. When he finds there is no problem requiring him to fix, he gets limited ability to know how to relate the issue. The man might regard his wife is annoying and resolve to escape. In my opinions…
Men tend to process their emotions inwardly. They don’t know exactly how they feel, so they try to figure it out on their own inside their head. When a man goes silent, he is just thinking. Don’t force him to talk. Leave him alone. He will come out of the cave, sooner or later.
Guys need praise as much as you do. Make your compliments to be clear and specific. The verbal praise that a man would love to hear is not something related to his masculine body. Tell him if you think he is a helpful partner to do the chores or tell him he is a caring father to play with the kids. The praises make him feel grateful. He would work even harder to prove he deserves your kind words.
7. Hero in Public
Believe it or not, men seek an exceptionally huge weight of respect and recognition from the other people. They express their assertiveness, unleash themselves, and like to demonstrate their capability to others by showing off they are very different. Don't pick out the one thing he did (or say) wrong when he is in public. He will hate you to make him look stupid and hurt his self-esteem.
Men desire freedom and space. They tend to involve their time in work, their toys, sports, or hanging out with the guys. While men likely desire more freedom, their partner would appeal to connection and love. What can you do about this? Never try to exert pressure, coercion, or influence upon a man. He chooses what is right for him. If you take a decision away from a man by being a pursuer, he will resent you, lose attraction for and escape from you. The magnetic attraction from the feminine energy is made man feels he can leave at any time, and he chooses to stay and commit.
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