Is Parenting Love Really Unconditional?

One day, I asked my kid the result of his school test as I was curious about why the teacher took so long to give marks.  She repeatedly told me that she hadn’t obtained the test result yet.  I doubted she was intentionally hiding something.  And then I found out she lied to me.  She confessed telling me that she worried I would no longer love her because he failed the test.  How come she gets the idea that my love for her has the condition?

Children need continuous flow of love

Children need love like the flower need water.  The parents matter most to them to be their whole world. They thirst for your full attention and affection to ensure you love them more than anyone else.
 
When my child was 5 years old… 
 
When she came back home from school, she couldn’t wait to call and find mommy.  Mommy was the first person she wanted to see at home.
 
Whenever I was reading books or sat on the couch watching TV, she felt perfectly happy and secured to sit beside me doing nothing.
 
If someone bullied against her, she would upset and told me "John beat me" or "Susan was yelling at me", or "Peter was bad". I was her protector, liked a big tree to protect her from the storm and rain.
 
When she felt she did something great, she couldn’t wait to show me her work and shared her joy of achievement.  She was looking for my appreciation.
 
The child might non-stop talking about whatever happened to her in school.  She was trying to tell she trusted me because she regarded me as her biggest supporter and pacifier.

Don’t put your job ahead your family

The greatest gift you can give your loved ones is your time.  Make time for the ones you love.  If you don’t prioritize your life, someone else will.  If you want a career, you have to sacrifice family time? If you want a family life, you have to sacrifice your career?  In fact, your children are not the distraction of important work.  They are the important work.  If you’re a career mom and the nine-to-five, Monday to Friday grind not work for you.  You may talk to your boss about a flexible schedule, reduce your hours to a part-time job. Don't put your job ahead your family.