Why do Women and Water are Alike?

Water never completes with other substances and focuses on nurturing lives.
 
A woman is like a teabag. You can’t tell how strong she is until you put it in hot water (quoted from Eleanor Roosevelt)
 
Or a woman is like hot water with the ability to harden an egg or soften a potato.
 
A woman is like water to cut through rocks not because of its power but its tenderness with persistency.
 
No doubt that a woman can do much work as any man. 
Women should be strong like a rock;
Or we are more appealing to be soft and tender.

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Susan was a great wife with a son who was three years old. When she was going to deliver her second child, her husband had an affair with his secretary and insisted on divorce. Susan became a single mom without any financial support from his ex-husband. She knew no matter what she said or did and that would be no way to change the heart and mind of her ex-husband to bear the responsibility.  

And then she walked away from the relationship with this man to accept reality responding with kindness and tenderness.  She treated the family of her ex-husband as friends.  Life must go on.  Susan focused her energy on finding jobs, making money, and taking care of her children. 
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Twenty years later, Susan did a great job building her business.  The family was proud of each other with love.  By the age of 55, Susan met a rich and great guy to ask her to marry him.  And it was a real story.

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​A woman is more powerful to use her tenderness when dealing with a situation she can’t control.  Tenderness generates serenity and dissipates anger and anxiety.  At the same time, she never gives up her power to believe that the world is what she made it.  She starts to embrace the courage (strong like a rock) to change what she can control.