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Women Wellness Spring 

How To Tell Communication That Affects The Parent-Child Relationship?

3/19/2021

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The child would absorb all the information into their mind without filtering. 
Your kids heard the words from you get soaked into their minds like water into the sponge. Words carry weights. Motherhood life is so much stress to feel something like riding a plane to go through turbulence from time to time. How to handle stress under pressure? Perhaps, there are two ways:
  1. Amplify your fear of the negative outcome
  2. Working on the real problem
The feeling of imminent fear escalates with words and action. We amplify the fear of the possible negative outcome.  
“Don’t you know this is the biggest event of the year? How dare you have badly stained the terrible dirt on your dress to spoil the night?”
 
“The examination is coming. If you fail, you’ve to change school. I demand you to practice the whole mock papers and study overtime doing it. Call in your Dad, right now!”

It is not the biggest event of the year. Some dirt on the dress would not spoil the night. Failing the exam won’t require changing school. You only feel that way and turn the worry into components of action you’re taking.
Instead, what if working on the real problem.  
 
“The examination is coming. Would you spend more time studying so that I know you did your very best?”
 
The kids will gain more confidence and be calm to deal with the problem.
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20 Comments
Karen James link
3/23/2021 02:53:32 am

Good post. As a mother with two adult children I never made them feel things were negative. I always just told them to do their best and I'd be happy. Thanks for sharing

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Cathy
3/25/2021 11:55:40 pm

You're a great mom. Thanks for reading.

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Sarah-Marie link
3/23/2021 05:39:27 am

It is so important that we take care with the language we use. It's so important to focus on the positive rather than the negative.

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Cathy
3/25/2021 11:56:50 pm

Well, yes. Words carry weight. Negative words did no good to anyone.

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sarah Howe link
3/23/2021 07:32:29 am

Great post. I have to try really hard to not be so negative too with my children as my words, I know, really affect them, x

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Cathy
3/25/2021 11:57:16 pm

Sarah, thanks for reading.

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Claire Lomax link
3/23/2021 12:16:51 pm

A very valid and important message here. Our children absorb so much from us, we must remember to be positive in the way we talk to them x

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Mudpie Fridays link
3/23/2021 12:40:52 pm

I’m a mum to two boys and so aware of this. It’s really important isn’t it. We are always careful to give the right message to them all the time and ensure they know it

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Anuradha link
3/23/2021 05:49:42 pm

I cannot NOT agree with whatever you said in there! It is absolutely important to be the role model to the child, for they see us, learn and repeat them - be it the words, or the mannerisms. Often times, tone and the right choice of words go a long way in making them understand what we are trying to say, or even when we say NO!

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Cathy
3/26/2021 12:00:03 am

Well said. We're the mirror to our children. Thanks for reading.

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Anosa link
3/24/2021 12:07:35 am

I am not yet a parent so I can only node as I learn from other parents about the joys and challenges of being a parent.

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Melanie
3/24/2021 06:20:02 am

Such a great post. Communication between parent and child is so important. There needs to be a positive no pressure relationship for sure x

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MELANIE EDJOURIAN
3/24/2021 07:01:11 am

It's important to be positive when you talk to children. Otherwise it can really affect their self confidence.

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Bri link
3/24/2021 08:21:30 pm

Love this! My girls are very little but I always try to practice positivity, honest and open communication and understanding with them.

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vidya link
3/24/2021 08:28:16 pm

As a parent of two teens, I totally agree with your post.. being positive and encouraging in our communication even while letting them know when they have made a mistake is important

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Gervin Khan
3/25/2021 05:24:37 am

I am 100 % agree with this post. A good communication with our child/children will help them build more confidence and will encourage them to do and be better.

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sarah
3/25/2021 11:58:39 am

totally agree... this is very beneficial... I have always been negative when mistakes are done and I have seen the effect of it.

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Leah link
3/25/2021 01:53:50 pm

Yes! Our words matter. Oftentimes, it's a matter of taking a moment to breathe...then speak. I find it helps me to be more loving and thoughtful.

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Sarah
3/25/2021 03:30:40 pm

There's definitely important factors to keep good communication between you and your child.

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Danielle link
3/25/2021 09:58:21 pm

Words matter. They especially matter when talking to your children. Thanks for sharing this.

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