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Women Wellness Spring 

Relationship Series: Bossy Career Women

11/24/2020

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What game are you playing?
She is a bossy career woman and doesn’t choose her family. 
The game she is playing: I play to win. 

I Play to Win

She wants to conquer men, conquer the business, and conquer everything because she plays to win.  She works 100% harder than others with a remarkable performance at work.  When she takes the lead in the business battle to win the deal, she was so good to maneuver the tactics and strategy far better than what you can read in the war book.  One of the frustrating things is that at the end of the day, she still needs a man.  Is it better for her to understand this earlier or surrender earlier? The answer is yes, and no.  
She didn’t mean to upset anyone. She stands for her point with confidence.  In return, she expects her partner to agree with her idea and the support she had from him.  She has no idea she did carry the bossy role at home when her husband asks her three questions:
  • What’s your very act of asking me to do something?
  • What’s your response when you think something goes wrong?
  • Who’s the first one to mention divorce during a fight?
She doesn’t need to win all the battles.  By the time when her hubby challenges her on some point, any point, she launches an inquest.  She asks him to tell her why he disagrees, and then she tries to catch him in an inconsistency.  Her follow-up questions are like those used by a lawyer trying to get an unreliable witness to admit his faults.  She almost always wins and gets a concession from her witness.  Her husband has concluded it’s just not worth disagreeing with her, or it’s not even worth talking to her, since you never know when a topic will lead to a controversy. When she wins all the battles, but she loses the metaphorical war.  She loses the opportunity to spend an enjoyable time with the one she loves.
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22 Comments
Stephanie Pick link
12/1/2020 07:02:51 pm

Very thought provoking! There is always a different perspective on things, and we so often don't make an effort to see it, but when we do I can change things dramatically for us. Thank for sharing!

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:18:35 pm

Thanks for the reading. Our perspective affects effective communication with others. And the relationship is about communication.

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Shar
12/2/2020 12:57:46 am

Very interesting post! I'm still single and don't relate to any of the 4 types.

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:22:13 pm

Well, yes, women are not only 4 types, of course. I focus on these four types in this series. Thanks for the reading.

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Nishtha link
12/2/2020 04:02:32 am

Interesting but I do not think we women have to fall in 1 of the 4 categories. I am a working wife and mom, and don’t visualize me fitting in 1 instead I may be showing characteristics of 2 or more:)

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:25:10 pm

Yes, every woman is unique and complex. I just pick 4 types in this series. Thanks for reading.

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Stephanie link
12/2/2020 04:22:15 am

This is so interesting! I can see certain aspects of my personality fitting into all 4 of these categories! So very thought provoking!

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:31:50 pm

Thanks for reading. A woman gets many facets that may not fit into just one of these 4 types. Relationship is about communication. Communication is affected by certain aspects of our character traits.

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Sydney
12/2/2020 05:43:19 am

Wow this definitely got me thinking!

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:32:18 pm

Thank you, Sydney.

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Windy
12/2/2020 08:36:46 am

Very interesting! I believe I fall in all categories.

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:33:39 pm

Thanks, Windy

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Jen @ JENRON DESIGNS link
12/2/2020 12:11:31 pm

It is an fun post, I do think there are a few more categories then 4 since I am not really any of these 4 myself I fit into a few pieces of each but I think women are so much more complex.

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:50:16 pm

Agree. Women are so much more complex. I simply pick certain character traits to connect with communication and relationship. Thanks for reading.

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Cheyenne link
12/2/2020 01:00:59 pm

Def. thought provoking! Such a great read.

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:50:46 pm

Thank you, Cheyenne. Glad you like the post.

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Mamie Pack link
12/2/2020 04:53:12 pm

We can fall into all sorts of categories based upon societal norms, upbringing, experience etc. We can be multifaceted. Some are taught that we must choose one or that the others are not as good. It's important to keep an open mind and be willing to unlearn unhealthy patterns.

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Cathy
12/3/2020 08:51:47 pm

Agree with your point. I simply pick certain character traits to connect with communication and relationship. Thanks for reading.

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Shanthi
12/8/2020 08:11:04 pm

Best thing I've come across today.

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Cathy
12/11/2020 01:49:27 am

Thank you, Shanthi. Glad you like this post.

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Mummageddon
12/9/2020 01:44:15 am

Interesting read. I recognise parts of myself here and no doubt might in some of the other roles you have discussed. Would be interesting to theorise where these traits rise from.

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Alicia link
12/9/2020 07:36:00 am

Hmm. Very interesting article. I think most of us have to choose because being a career woman and being the home maker are both arduous jobs

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