What If You Are A Tragic Romantic Person? (Part 3)

(Continue from part 1 and part 2)

Dealing with Tragic Romanic Person (Enneagram 4)

They may appear weak on the surface to get someone to protect them. 
They like crying, appearing vulnerable, and playing victim to look pathetic when you disagree with them.  You don’t need to jump out as a rescuer.
You may not know that tenacity is their core trait to withstand difficulties for chasing advancement to the next level.

1. It would be easier to connect with them via emotional sense by making stories.
2. They need more personal space or zone and avoid arranging a tight schedule for doing any work or anything else.

(Back to the story of part 1. What if Vivian responds to Amy in the following way?)

Vivian:  You know what? That sushi restaurant is different. The owner Mr. Sato opened this restaurant to make sushi tailor made the flower shape each day to attract the attention of his lover. He uses the flavor of rose smell as his lover loves rose accent. The environment is romantic and I sure you will like it.  You check and think about it and tell me tomorrow.

​Lesson to Learn for Four : Value the Present

Jealousy for comparing with others is frustrating.  Ever wonder it is ridiculous to find someone to embarrass yourself.  Chasing is the core trait for Four.  Very often, you will never know the value of the moment until it becomes a memory.
 
The mountain has its height
The sea has its depth
The wind has its freedom
The cloud has its tenderness
 
How can you compare the mountain with the sea?
Or compare the wind with the cloud?
Not everything can make a comparison.  Stop and smell the roses.  Live only at this moment where everything takes place. 

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Stay tuned for the upcoming post about the type five persona.